So beautiful! I truly believe that the only way out of these negative thought patterns and beliefs is to move through them. Before I did the inner work, my answers would have been:
When I love people, they don’t end up loving me back.
When I love people, I get hurt, disappointed.
It made me act in fear, not allowing myself to fully open my heart to the relationships in front of me. There was always an invisible wall, so to speak. I had to work on raising my own upper limits of love, and finding all the places in which I didn’t let her in.
I was sad to hear of your break up . I had followed you all through the time of you meeting Kylie and certainly for the 5 years since my marriage ended . I resonated with this message sent to my email tonight. It came weirdly at the exact time I needed to hear this advice. I still struggle to trust men and find a decent loyal honest man / partner. This love thing is complicated isn’t it !
Thanks for your note Sara! It was all as it should be. We're now married with a son, so it all worked out perfectly :) Hard to see the future that's possible when we're called to say goodbye. We can't see that we're saying hello to.
Appreciate your reflections. Find such a deep trust in yourself and the rest shall follow. :)
Serendipity in receiving this email. I understand where you're coming from, Sara. It took me a lot of time to re-wire my own belief system around men, given my primary caregivers' relationship. I slowly started to see glimmers of really good men out there; great relationships. Once I rewired my belief system and believed it was possible to find an empathetic, kind, loyal man (and energizing!) relationship it all changed. It's possible, promise! Sending love x
So beautiful! I truly believe that the only way out of these negative thought patterns and beliefs is to move through them. Before I did the inner work, my answers would have been:
When I love people, they don’t end up loving me back.
When I love people, I get hurt, disappointed.
It made me act in fear, not allowing myself to fully open my heart to the relationships in front of me. There was always an invisible wall, so to speak. I had to work on raising my own upper limits of love, and finding all the places in which I didn’t let her in.
Great post, thank you for sharing so openly.
Thank you for sharing! such beautiful reflections!
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. My sentences repeats yours.
I was sad to hear of your break up . I had followed you all through the time of you meeting Kylie and certainly for the 5 years since my marriage ended . I resonated with this message sent to my email tonight. It came weirdly at the exact time I needed to hear this advice. I still struggle to trust men and find a decent loyal honest man / partner. This love thing is complicated isn’t it !
Warm wishes Sara
Thanks for your note Sara! It was all as it should be. We're now married with a son, so it all worked out perfectly :) Hard to see the future that's possible when we're called to say goodbye. We can't see that we're saying hello to.
Appreciate your reflections. Find such a deep trust in yourself and the rest shall follow. :)
Serendipity in receiving this email. I understand where you're coming from, Sara. It took me a lot of time to re-wire my own belief system around men, given my primary caregivers' relationship. I slowly started to see glimmers of really good men out there; great relationships. Once I rewired my belief system and believed it was possible to find an empathetic, kind, loyal man (and energizing!) relationship it all changed. It's possible, promise! Sending love x
Thank you! I have been struggling in relationships for a while and your words resonate so deeply. But I’m almost there :
goodbye to and hello to .. so inspiring man!
Thanks for reading! Change is possible once we stop orienting from our wounds. You’ve got this!
Well written 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽