What if they don't want to grow?

What to do when the person we love doesn't want to grow with us.

One person can never do the work of two.

Let’s start there. With that fact. That truth.

And yet, if you’re reading this, you’re likely the one who’s been holding up everything. You’ve been carrying the relationship, hoping you could hold it all together.

But you know you cannot… because at the basis of trying to do everything in a relationship and family, is a wound. And a wound cannot sustain life… for it requires the investment of life force to heal.