It seems counterintuitive to tell you that the letting go can be just as effective as holding on. We have been sold the story that your worth is found in your fight. But sometimes your worth is actually found in your surrender. It's found in your ability to let go. It's found in your ability to let the sand fall through your fingers instead of trying to hold on to the beach.
Sometimes the birth of all of you is the acceptance of the death of what you've fought so hard to resist. In that resistance of what is true, is the resistance of you, your true light, your true essence. I'm not here to tell you what you should fight for and what you shouldn't. That is for you to learn. But when fighting for something else feels like you lost yourself long ago, the surrender brings us to a standstill. The letting go allows our inner being to catch up.